The One Hundred: A Guide to Pieces Every Happy and Balanced Soul Must Embrace: Simplicity

by maya on January 21, 2009

A little while ago,  I borrowed a book called “The One Hundred - A Guide to the Pieces Every Stylish Woman should Own“. I loved the book - the matter, the presentation and the timelessness. Inspired by that book, today I introduce “The One Hundred”  on ThinkMaya - A Series that will explore one happiness/balance accessory at a time.  These posts will be easy to read (unlike my other posts) and I plan to alternate these with my more lengthier/heavier posts. These posts are meant to be thought provoking without being heavy on the mind - and hopefully promote some fun discussion!

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication ” - Leonardo Da Vinci

implicity, is to me, in many many ways, the most complex of concepts I have come across. Let me explain. Until a few years ago, simplifying my life was one of the most complex of challenges I came across. And then, amidst all that struggle I discovered that, simplicity for me, is a journey. It is about being in the flow. About making the choices that keeps me authentic. About living the life that fill me with energy - not the one that saps me off my energy and passion. As complex as my life might seem to many people, it couldn’t be simpler and I couldn’t be happier. Simplicity, to me is a light garb - almost invisible, yet powerful. As paradoxical as it might seem, it is this garb of simplicity that lets me shine through with my authenticity and yet shields me from the complexities of outside world.

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  • Simplicity is a timeless piece and best worn any way you like it.
  • Just as with anything else, trying too hard will take away from the beauty of simplicity. So just wear it!
  • Simplicity is best paired with authenticity - and do not ever worry if they seem like they are in conflict. Simplicity has a way of blending in.
  • Don’t ever spend a LOT of money on Simplicity. The best Simplicity veils are the homemade ones.
  • NEVER ever be ashamed of your Simplicity garb. It gets better with age - just like the best wines!
  • Wear Simplicity like it is a part of you and you will love the life and experiences it brings along!

The internet is a great way to find a dose of Simplicity - a little here and a little there. I will list some of the best resources I have come across:

If you have a couple of more minutes, enjoy this (seemingly) complex picture of Simplicity:

A quick explanation of the numbers on the graph above -

  1. Simplicity consumes a lot of energy and effort - but only until a certain point. Reducing material posessions, producing lesser garbage, eating healthier, buying less stuff is all hard - really hard only until Simplicity becomes a part of us. So hang in there and it will happen. The tipping point WILL come!
  2. Reaching that tipping point suddenly makes us wiser - since we can stop spending time and energy on trying to be simple. All of a sudden we are just living a Simple Life - having embodied ad internalized Simplicity. And then we have all this time and energy to focus on learning and getting better!
  3. This is where life gets easier and we have mastered the art of Simplicity.
  4. This is where we have all attained Simplicity Nirvana :)

Honestly, I have no idea where I am in this picture …but everyday Simplicity seems to come more naturally to me - and for that I am grateful :)

Hope you have enjoyed reading the post. Do take a minute to share your thoughts on Simplicity. How do YOU wear your Simplicity veil? Where do you find your inspiration?

  • Hi Maya: Thank you for the mention. I love that graph. You do have to make an effort to simplify, and create the systems, rituals and routines that will help you to simplify, as well as adopt a new mindset. But once everything is in place your life flows so much easier and, like you say, you liberate time, resources, and attention to pursue your true heart's desires. I'm going to watch the John Maeda video now :-)
  • Mare - thank you - I love that graph too. I actually drew that graph without the wisdom curve and then stole the wisdom part from John Maeda's talk. Wisdom, he says is one thing that increases with age - that is when I thought about how much steeper the line could be if we added simplicity to our lives as we age on ...
    You have explained the graph really well - thank you :)
  • Maya - really liked this post, and I'm looking forward to the rest of the series!

    I agree with Mare -the graph is great. I think you got it right when you put wisdom on there instead of knowledge as I think most people would have done.

    I do disagree with one of your points though - your other posts are easy to read.

    Patrick

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Very Evolveds last blog post..Follow the Herd. How behavior and stories spread through online crowds</abbr>
  • Hi Maya. Simplicity? What's that? LOL. I can appreciate this post. I'm a "recovering perfectionist" and have to constantly remind myself to go easy. Thanks for another reminder. I look forward to reaching that point when this process becomes simpler.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Davinas last blog post..How Curious Moments Add Value</abbr>
  • You have certainly made a good case for living simply. Great graph that you drew!! It seems hard at first having to do so much just to live simply but the effort pays off in the end. Thanks for an inspiring post!!

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Evelyn Lims last blog post..HAVE-DO-BE or BE-DO-HAVE?</abbr>
  • Hi Maya - I love the quote that you use by Leonardo da Vinci about simplicity and sophistication. Many people believe "simplicity" to mean "easy" and so they strive for complexity to show that they are skilled and talented. But I think Leonardo got it right. Nice post :)

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Amanda Linehans last blog post..How To Live In The Moment (When It’s The Last Place You Want To Be)</abbr>
  • While I don't write about simplicity, I certainly practice it. To me, one of the most important aspects of simplicity is avoiding physical clutter. Physical clutter makes me feel overwhelmed and confused. I love living in a simple, airy, sunlit, uncluttered home. As for emotional clutter, I'm not quite there yet, but certainly working on it.
  • @Vered - You have made an important observation - a cluttered environment leads to feelings of being overwhelmed and confusion.

    The reverse is true too - the satisfaction derived from seeing an orderly environment can actually help calm your mind and reduce stress. Both of which lead to much more rational thought, and clearer thoughts - what I think the real definition of simple is.

    A simple thing can be very complex and have lots of components and still be simple if it's easy for your mind to grasp and not overwhelming.

    Patrick

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Very Evolveds last blog post..Follow the Herd. How behavior and stories spread through online crowds</abbr>
  • Hi Patrick,

    Thank you for the comment about my earlier posts - I guess in some ways I want to challenge myself to write and express myself in different ways...
    Yes, wisdom is how we internalize life, isn't it? I see it as vastly different from knowledge. I think they are quite mutually exclusive actually :)

    Hi Davina,
    I am always in awe as to how you share the NOW. Thank you for doing that here, once again! You know - I am constantly learning how much simpler life gets if I learn to be just OK with some things ... I am learning to let go and just be ..and yes, it is getting easier!
    Btw, I am sooo loving your quotes project - even more - I love the way you are sharing it with each of your blog posts!!

    Hi Evelyn,
    Am so glad you enjoyed the graph!! I love to represent things over time :) And thank you for participating here often - you are a great inspiration!

    Hi Amanda!!
    It is really nice to see you here :)
    Yes, I loved that Da Vinci quote! I am a firm believer that if we wear Simplicity well and are proud of it - it is the ultimate state of class and sophistication - isn't it such a great way to put it?!
    And you are so right - you do not have to appear complex to be impressive - that is just called "trying too hard" :)
    Thank you for sharing here!

    Hi Vered,
    A LOT of what we see of you on your blog reflects a level of Simplicity - I love you blog design, your simple style (the few pics you have shared) ...
    I think I do better on the emotional side - seems like I have more control there sometimes! We got rid of a bunch of our stuff recently and that has certainly made the physical clutter more manageable!
  • Maya, after one one post, I am absolutely loving this series. I can't wait for #2!

    It is amazing how much more we can accomplish with the use of simplicity than without. The trend of multitasking is coming to and end, because people have come to find that it's grossly overrated.

    I also love your simplicity diagram. Did you come up with that?

    Keep the high quality posts coming.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Trey Bairds last blog post..How Can Muscle Memory Help Your Career?</abbr>
  • Hi Trey,
    Welcome to ThinkMaya! So glad you stopped to share.

    Yes, there seems to be a trend to embrace simplicity - I guess we as mankind, have hit the tipping point where we just cannot manage the complexity anymore !

    Yes, I came up with the diagram. The correlation of the wisdom along with the simplicity idea came from John Maeda's talk.

    I am so glad you like the diagram and the post. Thanks again for sharing here!

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Mayas last blog post..Preparing to Believe in Yourself: The Science of Ditchiness</abbr>
  • Great distillation and thought provoking points.

    I always enjoy your mental models and the way you share your thought process.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>J.D. Meiers last blog post..Avoid Mental Burnout</abbr>
  • Hi Maya,
    I think your graph makes a lot of sense. It does take work to simplify. It's not just saying "today, I'm going to simplify my life" - and voila, everything is the way you desire. It takes effort, it takes planning, it takes work. And then...it gets easier. That's really a great representation of achieving simplicity Maya!

    I find my inspiration for simplicity through the freedom it provides me. Like your model shows, though, that freedom may not be there right away - it may take time - yet there will come a point - where I feel that freedom - where I have felt that freedom in certain areas of my life.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Lances last blog post..Sunday Thought For The Day</abbr>
  • JD - thank you!

    Hi Lance - you are everywhere these days! I am really enjoying seeing your blog grow :)
    So true - Simplicity does give us a lot of freedom, doesn't it? Mental freedom, physical freedom and spiritual freedom ...it does let us live a life of fullness, doesn't it? And you are so right about feelign that freedom in certain areas of our lives ....for me the mental freedom certainly came before the physical freedom - and when I started to experience that freedom I started to make and effort to simplify other areas of my life! Thanks for sharing Lance - you always make a minute or two to share and I really value that :)

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Mayas last blog post..Preparing to Believe in Yourself: The Science of Ditchiness</abbr>
  • Hey , i loved the graph . The idea of simplicity will strike a chord with people who like being simple. I think its more of an intrinsic quality/trait . For example , people who drive a merc , dine at the most expensive restaurants , wear the most fashionable clothes and believe that extravaganza is the IN thing. My point is that you teach people how to be simple , it's either in them or not.

    PS : nevertheless , i am sure simpletons like me would love the post:)
  • the last post didnt come out well... many words are missing... sorry.. i was using the bad phone again... i'll re-type it :

    i loved the graph . The idea of simplicity will strike a chord with people who like being simple. I think its more of an intrinsic quality/trait . however its not for people who drive a merc , dine at the most expensive restaurants , wear the most fashionable clothes and believe that extravaganza is the IN thing.
    My point is that you cannot tell people how to be simple , it’s either in them or not.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>ankur kakkars last blog post..not really in the best of spirits</abbr>
  • The concept of simplicity invites each person to self-reflect. It is a mental process you encourage which enables people to become more self-directed, if they choose to do so. The insights you offer are food for thought.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Liara Coverts last blog post..5 Tips to root yourself in the moment</abbr>
  • Usually when I get into trouble, it is because I have made things too complicated. Simplicity is best. Like someone else said I am a recovering perfectionist. I like simplicity and authenticity. What I am still learning is how to do honest with kindness. I can come across as too forceful.

    <abbr></abbr><abbr>Patricia - Spiritual Journey Of A Lightworkers last blog post..Kindness---Why Is It Easier To Be Kind To Strangers?</abbr>
  • To me simplicity = less is more. The less stuff I have around me the more I feel sense of simplicity.
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